Are you okay?

Posted by Murray    Posted in Self Reflection    Posted in March 16, 2012    |    No Comments
  • I recently read a piece by Sam Leader in the Flying Solo website that referred to Thomas Harris’ work describing four life positions. http://www.flyingsolo.com.au/live-smarter/business-psychology/im-ok-youre-ok
    1. I’m not okay, you’re okay
    2. I’m not okay, you’re not okay
    3. I’m okay, you’re not okay
    4. I’m okay, you’re okay

    Sam does a great job of describing the different positons you may have and explaining why 4 is of course the healthiest position to have.

    Thinking about it was a sobering experience for me as I realised that there was a bit of no 3 in me! My new awareness around this is changing my outloook and approach and is a work in progress.

    So what outlook do you have? Not sure? Ask others (if you want the hard truth ask your parner!)

     

     

     

     

     

     

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